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SHUT UP AND DIE
08-08-2007, 01:07 AM
Goddamn the wierdest thing just happened to me. I'm doing my last reviews from the last package of cd's Mark sent me. Well, I hop on myspace (as I do) to do a bit of extra searching ona particular band. I see some messages on my page, and decide to check them......
One of the worst people I have ever encountered in my life has sent me a message apologizing for about ten tons of shit that she put me through in, like, 2002. And it's not that I give a damn about it anymore, I don't....but I hate getting surprises like that.....fuck.....
Anyone else ever have the ex appear out of nowhere to cordially ruin you fuggin train of thought at that moment? Goddamn.....wierd....and here's an even wierder part: yesterday I was remarking to my wife about how certain people from my past were finding me on myspace that I didn't particularly want to find me. My wife asks me if the ex (that just messaged me) was the one who contacted me, to which I reply "no, haven't talked to her in 5 years". Now this........too wierd.....
fuzzay crisis
08-08-2007, 04:26 AM
oh my god i hate that! the last two "big" exes i've had still send me emails from time to time trying to get me to get back with them. it makes me want to kill. especially since i have a boyfriend now.
Lord Zombie
08-08-2007, 05:29 AM
Now that you have mentioned it, I will probably be contacted now! :tard Or worse yet, they will find me at work...
Phantomreaper
08-08-2007, 08:26 AM
That's gotta suck.
Mythos Inibri
08-08-2007, 08:54 AM
So did you tell her to fuck off?
Vertigo
08-08-2007, 09:51 AM
Yeah, that's crazy. I'm kinda glad I'm female and I'm married now so people who don't know me or don't know who I married can't find me. There are only two people still from my past that I wish would find me on myspace or I wish I could find them. I've had a couple of random messages from people, but I think I am able to avoid assholes pretty well on there. And if someone lame requests me or messages me I just ignore it or don't add them back.
Mark Carras
08-08-2007, 12:28 PM
The last time something like this happened was when me and (my now wife) Sherri first got together. We had been close friends for years, so I knew she was 'the one'. Well, then I had all kinds of ex-girlfriends call me up wanting to get back together. I even had an ex-one night stand call me up wanting to bring over her girlfriend! :shock If only me and Sherri would have got together just a few months later. :cry
Mythos Inibri
08-08-2007, 01:46 PM
the girl I'm with now for the last 2 years is of the extremely jealous type.
One of my friends called her Jeannie once(one of my ex's) and she still hates him.
had this happen. it really made the pit in my stomach do a backflip... being as i never really lost my feelings for this girl (as i dont think you can truly stop having feelings for somebody you once loved (good or bad feelings)... i have to big of a heart. i never replied. i didnt want to bring the pain that i felt in the past back.
fuzzay crisis
08-08-2007, 05:35 PM
Well, then I had all kinds of ex-girlfriends call me up wanting to get back together.
yea, why the fuck is it that they only want you when they see that you're with someone else and they know they won't get you back? i mean sometimes i wonder if my two exes broke up with me on purpse to see how much of their shit i could take. like some fucked up twisted test or something. meanwhile, the few months after you're broken up and sitting in misery, they could care less. but when you finally move on, it's like they've changed into some angel or something. fuck that.
Mythos Inibri
08-08-2007, 06:10 PM
it's like they've changed into some angel or something. fuck that.
:rotfl
yea, why the fuck is it that they only want you when they see that you're with someone else and they know they won't get you back? i mean sometimes i wonder if my two exes broke up with me on purpse to see how much of their shit i could take. like some fucked up twisted test or something. meanwhile, the few months after you're broken up and sitting in misery, they could care less. but when you finally move on, it's like they've changed into some angel or something. fuck that.
everybody want's what they can no longer have ;)
SHUT UP AND DIE
08-08-2007, 06:48 PM
So did you tell her to fuck off?
I didn't really know what to say, for once. That sucked.....lol. I was like "ummm....I'm doing much better in my life now, uh....have a good life". Well, ok, that was the gist of it with a few references to the past/reasons why we shouldn't talk.
But then....like an idiot.....I told her she could write back if she wanted to. I got this feeling that's going to bite me in the ass.....ugh. To her credit she was giving me all kinds of compliments about my wife and kid, and even apologized repeatedly for all the crap....but I'm kinda left wondering "Ummm....why now, 5 years later?"
SHUT UP AND DIE
08-08-2007, 06:51 PM
had this happen. it really made the pit in my stomach do a backflip... being as i never really lost my feelings for this girl (as i dont think you can truly stop having feelings for somebody you once loved (good or bad feelings)... i have to big of a heart. i never replied. i didnt want to bring the pain that i felt in the past back.
Dude....I wrote her a scathing little "fuck you" response back at first. Then I wrote one that I felt was a little too nice. Then I just made one (the one I actually sent) that was rather bland and neutral. Like I said, I didn't really know what to say.....or what was appropriate.....the shock was the main thing I could think of, lol. Now I'm feeling more like I should just have not replied at all.....
SHUT UP AND DIE
08-08-2007, 06:53 PM
I even had an ex-one night stand call me up wanting to bring over her girlfriend! :shock If only me and Sherri would have got together just a few months later. :cry
D'OH!!!!!!!!!
Dude....I wrote her a scathing little "fuck you" response back at first. Then I wrote one that I felt was a little too nice. Then I just made one (the one I actually sent) that was rather bland and neutral. Like I said, I didn't really know what to say.....or what was appropriate.....the shock was the main thing I could think of, lol. Now I'm feeling more like I should just have not replied at all.....
you can always just say that out of respect for yourself and your family that you would rather not talk to her. some things can hurt too much to bring somebody back into your life (even if it is just through the internet), and other things just need to be left the fuck alone for other reasons.
Mark Carras
08-08-2007, 11:31 PM
yea, why the fuck is it that they only want you when they see that you're with someone else and they know they won't get you back? i mean sometimes i wonder if my two exes broke up with me on purpse to see how much of their shit i could take. like some fucked up twisted test or something. meanwhile, the few months after you're broken up and sitting in misery, they could care less. but when you finally move on, it's like they've changed into some angel or something. fuck that.
No shit! One of these girls I had totally stooped to an embarrassing level trying to get her back just three months before. So I was sitting at my house all depressed because the ex wouldn't get back with me. I had planned a night of depression and stewing in my loneliness. Then two female friends of mine called me up and wanted to spend the night listening to music and drinking. Fine, I caved and went over. It was that night that me and my now wife started actually dating! So I got together with my wife because I was on the re-bound from that ex rejecting me!
that's a damn good rebound!
fuzzay crisis
08-09-2007, 11:11 AM
that's a damn good rebound!
hell yea it is.
Mark Carras
08-09-2007, 04:31 PM
that's a damn good rebound!
hell yea it is.
Yeah, a relationship based on years of good friendship is the best. For about a year people would tell us to 'just get it over with and fuck'. Our reply was always a very irritated 'We're just friends!' That and Sherri was married.
SHUT UP AND DIE
08-09-2007, 10:00 PM
Yeah, a relationship based on years of good friendship is the best.
Right on, dude.....I've known my wife for 19 years. She was actually my babysitter at one point in time, lol.
Phantomreaper
08-09-2007, 10:31 PM
Right on, dude.....I've known my wife for 19 years. She was actually my babysitter at one point in time, lol.
Ahh so she was that kid of babysitter.:genn
Nah seriously, that's great.
SHUT UP AND DIE
08-10-2007, 01:24 AM
Ahh so she was that kid of babysitter.:genn
Nah seriously, that's great.
Ha...at the time she babysat me, I was 11 and she was 14 or something like that. Funny thing is, I had a crush on her even then.....lol.
my wife is 10 years older than me... it works out well
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